Changes in Wedding Culture According to a 25-Year Wedding Planner

A current wedding planner has pointed out the characteristics and issues of couples preparing for marriage, and this information has been spreading across various online communities.

On the 3rd, Baek Seung-min, a wedding planner with 25 years of experience and head of Berry Good Wedding, appeared on the YouTube channel 'Sseuk Studio' and shared his honest views based on his experiences regarding the “worst marriage partner who makes you work to death.”

Baek pointed out, "These days, there are too many brides who are princess-like," attributing this mainly to cases where the bride is an only daughter.

He further noted, "There are many grooms who are overly caring," and indicated that such attitudes from grooms contribute to making brides feel like "princesses." This attitude of grooms is indeed creating a phenomenon where brides are treated as "princesses."

Baek experienced the changes in modern marriage culture during a conversation with one groom. When he asked, "Why are all the grooms these days so affectionate, sweet, and delicate?" the groom responded, "If I don't act this way, I can't get married. My friend who doesn't treat girls like a princess has no girlfriend."

In response, Baek remarked that "today's grooms are very affectionate," but he warned, "As long as it continues like this, they will have a good life, but if the feelings change, it will lead to ongoing conflicts, ultimately becoming a shortcut to divorce."

He also advised that to sustain married life, both the groom and bride need to "make a lot of effort for each other."

Netizens who watched the video expressed various opinions, such as, "Pretending to be kind for dating and marriage will eventually become unbearable," "I can't even treat them," and "I understand being a princess, but I hope they are not selfish."

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